Just one of those days...

So my mom had invited me to go to her relief society this Wednesday. Lately with J being gone I have been bored, somewhat depressed haha and spiritual empty. So I decided to go...besides what else was I going to do that night besides sit on my couch and watch tv. I was having somewhat of a bad day by the time work ended, went to class with a bad attitude, because I might not be getting a good enough grade to get into Radiology without having to take the stupid class again. I almost called my mom to tell her I wasn't in the mood. I didn't. I went. On the way there as I was pulling out of my street an elderly couple was walking holding hands, I hope when I have a hunch back, white hair and can hardly walk down the street Jason will still want to hold my hand. Then I was on creek road and saw a group of younger people walking with some special needs kids. One was in a wheel chair and the other had down syndrome. They looked so happy to have some friends to be taking them on a walk. I appreciated the younger kids for helping out. Then I was turning onto the street that the stake center was on and their was a guy walking his dog, picking up trash.

I don't know if I have just missed all of this before but people are so great! I loved seeing everyone helping each other out. I guess going rs made me open my eyes to how amazing some people are. Plus the good weather makes everyone a little happier. Not to mention the speakers were amazing! It was a group of three women (mothers) who started a singing group. They talked about "Spiritual Spa's" and had a lot of great stories from the Book of Mormon. Relief Society was just what I needed on this bad day I was having. I wish I knew the name of the group so you could here them but they were really good.

Thanks mom for inviting me to come.

What The F$*@%!!!

My husband likes golf??

Today aroung 12:01 pm Jason and I got into our comfty clothes and snuggled up on the couch. I was searching through the guide and turned to HGTV (We are hoping to buy a house by the end of the year so I have fell in love with some of the shows.) Anyway, I get up to get a drink from the kitchen and come back to Jason watching THE MASTERS!!! What the H$%&!! I didn't marry someone who watches golf. Jason has never ever shown interest in golf, I have known this man for 2 years!! Never has he said anything about Lee Westwood or Phil Mickelson, and now when I sit down he acts like he knows them as if they were Tiger Woods. He's talking about Par and Birdie's and how Tiger shanked it into the BUNKERS!!!

Sorry for those of you who like golf, enjoy playing it on weekends and watching the most boring sport on TV. But I don't DO GOLF. And my husband shouldn't either. This might have been something that could have changed my response when he kneeled down on his knee! HAHA kidding but seriously, am I the only one who thinks watching Golf on TV is insanley boring? Yes I admit going to the range and hitting a bucket can be fun, or hey, I'm totally up for mini golf, even though I suck. But come on golf in the Pluim house? Never would have saw that coming. EVER!! So here I am on my Sunday afternoon watching.... YUP Golf!!
I can't wait for the Pacific Life Open and the US open to start!! GO TENNIS!!!

BIRTHDAYS!!!!! Wow it's been an eventful week...

The first week of April is a busy one for Birthdays...


April 5th was Rachael's (Jason's little's sister) birthday. She turned the BIG 21!!!
Rach is such an amazing young lady. She is not only beautiful but really funny. She makes J laugh all through dinner with their little random movie lines. She puts up with me when we go over there and plays game after game of Ticket to Ride. She is someone I look up to because she is so strong in the church. She goes to Dixie but comes home on the weekends if her old singles ward is doing anything. She is always going to firesides and reading church books. I pray our kids take after her. Happy 21Rach!! we love you! Hope you liked the shoes.
















Next was my great friend Marcy!! We have only been friends since 2006 but it was meant to be for sure. Although we don't see each other as much these days when we do we don't skip a beat! She is always making sure everyone is happy and pleased. She is the life of the party. I can come to her with any problems and she always has great advice. She is for sure the sexiest 2nd grade teacher ever! Those kids are extremely lucky to have her as a teacher. She is so smart and sweet. I hope you had a great night after dinner and I hope Taylor is treating you like a Queen all week!! love you!! Won't lie can't wait till he's gone.. GIRLS NIGHTS!!!! haha kidding....kinda Happy 26th!! (yeah she's 26 sometimes when we first met people they would think I was older she doesn't look a day over 23 huh?? jealous!!)















Then.. on the 8th.. My Bestie!! Whitters!! Whits!! Firthie!! Whit and I have been besties since... 4th grade?? Well let's just say a long flinging time!! Whit is the best friend a girl could have we could honestly talk for hours and hours and never run out things to say. She has the biggest heart and loves to laugh. We have been trying to get together a few times a month to get some dinner and it has been great to keep in touch. She is always looking out for everyone she loves!! Such a babe!!! I wuv her!!Happy 22 doll!!


My computer with all my pics of us isn't working!! I'm pissed so this pic with have to do. I couldn't get Tooshie Tashie out. haha

Happy Birthday MOM!!!

Yesterday March, 26 was my mom's birthday! It was such a great night because my middle brother Brent was in town from Cali, my younger brother Chase took the night off and J had the WHOLE day off!! We went to Redlobster for dinner. It was good to have everyone together for a little bit. A rare occassion for my family. We are all so spread out and busy we rarely have a chance to get everyone together. Dinner was delicious of course, CRAB LEGS and salmon for me!! woop woop!! of course steak for J.






I just wanted to wish my mom a Happy Bday!! Your the best!! Your always looking out for your kids and want the best for us. J and my weddind day wouldn't have been anything without my mom. She is so crafty and helpful. We have grown a great relationship over the last few years and I hope it gets even better. I can talk to her about everything. We love you mom!! Your the best!



Afterwards, we went to meet up with some of our long lost friends! The Thompsons and soon to be (but not official yet) Sparks!! Woop Woop!! Due to Jason's stupid, lame, ridiculous work schedule, it's hard to get to see everyone. It was good to spend a few hours with these great couples!! After another sit down dinner, we got an apetizer, we went and saw Alice in Wonderland with Dave and Ash. It was good but I bet I would have liked it better in 3D. We love you guys! hope to see you again soon!!!

We love our family and freinds we feel so blessed to have all these great people in our lives!!

The MOST WONDERFUL time of the year!!!

LOVE LOVE LOVE THESE!!!! I love samoas!! J loves thin mints, now I like thin mints too.. guess that just adds on more time at the gym... o wait, I don't go to the gym... guess I better start going.....tomorrow?? okay we'll be real.... next week.

I have a husband???

O is that him on the right?? He's hot!! But I never see him... are you sure we're married??








Yes we are but it sure as H doesn't seem like it these days...
As some of you know J has been working nights for the last four months, yes one month after we got married he was taken from me. Work for him has been tough the last couple of weeks he was suppose to be back on days in Febuary but due to some cuts at work J got put back on nights. So we see eachother umm... well I see Jas in the mornings when he is passed out and I leave for work and then he sees me when he gets home and I'm passed out sleeping. What a wonderful first 5 months of marriage... NOT!!! We luckily get Saturday nights and the whole day on Sundays! WOOP WOOP!! exciting huh? Yeah NOT. I get so bored at night without my guy. I should be going to the gym getting my butt back into shape but no I go home and watch TV AAAALLLLL night. PATHETIC. Any good ideas to entertain this single married woman??

TV shows... addicting????

Okay so I always thought I wasn't a big TV gal. Well apparently I am. I have been thinking about all the shows that I am addicted to. Shows that during the week make my day at work go by faster because I get to go home and watch them. So sad I know, but I KNOW I'm not the only one.

There are a few that are coming out that I just started watching but love already and of course they are on my DVR schedule. I would personally like to thank who ever came up with DVR. I owe you BIG TIME!!!!
Marriage Ref.. Pee my pants
Parenthood... alot of good people haven't really seen it yet but am excited







Of coures, I wasn't always addicted to bachelor until the one season, don't remember his name (see pic below with yellow background) but he was the one who had his twin come on the show to see who noticed it wasn't him.. ring a bell?? Anyway.. SO HOT!! I think my hubby reminds me of him tons!! Don't you agree? Back to the point... What the H was Jake thinking!! Vienna?? My opinion I know. When Jake was one of the men with Jillian I always said "He's too nice." Tenley the same thing. Two nice people should go together. Although it is true she seems like she just jumped out of a Disney movie, I LOVED HER!! They would have made beautiful children and lived Happily Ever after. Vienna is just him being horny!! This is my opinion.
Although I wasn't a big fan of Jason I'm excited to watch his and Molly's wedding.











I have always been a big fan for Sunday's!! I can't get enough of Desperate!!! I would watch it all day if I could. I want to live on Wisteria Lane in those adorable homes and have loving neighbors like these women have one day. J thinks I'm delerious. But a girl can dream right? And Brothers and Sisters, I love big families for this reason, big dinners, secrets, always having someone to turn to. And of course the drama. I will never have a big family unfortunately so I get to watch the one on tv. Love Sundays!!










Growing addiction.. I have been watching this on and off for a few years but just lately have been getting really into it. The real housewives of OC. I haven't started the other ones like Atlanta and New York but only time can tell when I'll start those. Wacthing this makes me realize how much I hate Cali. I will never move there. The women are too much but I love watching it. I'm more of a small town girl. Gilmore girl style. I have watched the whole seasons of that show so many times but don't get sick of it. I want to have a realationship like that with my daughter.











Dexter.. Have you seen it? You should. This is one that J and I got hooked on. Thanks Netflix. If you have a hard time with the F word, don't watch. Other than that IT IS AMAZING!!! I got so hooked I was having nightly dreams about the characters. I fell in love with Rita, Dex's girlfriend. (you now see her on desperate) she has an amazing tiny body, I think pretty face and is great at acting in many roles. I encourage you all to watch it. It's on Showtime so if you don't have it rent it. ASAP!!!!